Monday, 27 February 2012

About My Neck: Two

When I was five we lived in a duplex. There was chartreuse carpet on the living room floors and pears on kitchen wallpaper. The landlady, a Mrs. Morningstar,  lived in the top floor of the other half of the duplex. She rented out the bottom of half. A lady snake lived under our back stoop. Across the street, two sisters added solar panels to their roof, and down the road, a woman named Fritzi built dioramas inside styrofoam Big Mac containers. I still thought that everyone had sisters who came over on the weekends, that the mild grade in our driveway was a giant hill, and that if I asked the boy down the road to be my boyfriend I'd have to kiss him and marry him.

I wasn't sure I was ready to make that kind of commitment.

I went to afternoon kindergarten. I had the whole morning to play with that boy or to hop off the stoop or to run my fingers across Holly Hobby's face on my pillowcase. Before going to school, I had cheese sandwiches and tomato. Or maybe that just happened once, and it is all I can remember. School had monkey bars, an elephant slide, and part of the child-kidnapping hysteria that was engulfing America. 

Each night my mother checked that the windows were closed, and my father locked the doors. Mostly I dreamed about Muppet-like monsters driving around in wooden racing cars. They never had good intentions. When I woke desperate to urinate, I had to hold my breath so the witch who occupied the front room wouldn't reach out and grab me.

And so, even in sleep, I must have been quite relieved to find myself sitting in my yellow pajamas on the our front stoop--the stoop that wasn't occupied by a snake--in broad daylight with no sign of racing cars or Muppets. I knew that Mom was in the kitchen and any minute she'd tell me to it was time to shut the door and go to bed.

I wasn't surprised to see the Easter Bunny wandering down the street, complete with mesh mouth and colorful suit vest. I knew he wasn't the real Easter Rabbit because the real Easter Rabbit couldn't leave the mall. And I knew, because I'd been told, that I should run inside and lock the door. But my legs had gone numb, and he was half-way up the driveway. I knew, because I'd been told, that I should scream for my mother, but the rabbit had raised his white-mitten hand to his lips. With that gesture, he'd taken away my voice. I knew that it was inevitable, that he'd planned on taking me, and by not running or screaming I'd been complicit in my own undoing. Still I tried to find more screaming voice. The rabbit took his gun and shot me in the right shoulder. I don't remember waking up, only that feeling that I was being suffocated and couldn't unfreeze enough to fight.

I still sometimes dream that I'm sitting on the front stoop in my yellow nightgown waiting for the inevitable. I always know that it's the shock of the thing that will keep me from running. But I have never since dreamed the Easter Rabbit coming up our driveway.

It's the anticipation that most of my nightmares are made of, the knowledge of what will happen if I let my guard down.

I expect that's why I don't worry so much about the rattlesnake simply biting me. It's the length of time, the enforced patience of waiting for her to climb my body, before she struck my neck. It's the knowledge that my hands, like my voice, would lose all usefulness and fail to act before the snake truly stuck.

There are six whole months before September 1st, and I am trying hard to keep my wits about me. I'm trying hard to see more that an arrival in the US without job, without healthcare, without savings. I am trying hard to remember to shake off the snake rather than, in my own inaction, offering it my neck.


  1. Hey - You're going to make it. I promise.

  2. 1st, are you coming back to the states? 2nd, I didn't have a witch but did have an alligator that lived under my bed!

    Yep, we're related!

  3. America? You#re going back to America? How have I missed this? How???


  4. Oh my. That post was mesmerizing and beautifully written! It will all be alright.

    Doesn't that just sound trite and pathetic?

    Hope it all works out.

  5. I've got goosebumps reading that.

    Look at the potential of the situation, not the difficulty (easier said than done, I know).

  6. I wish there was some way to assure you that all with be fine and that life has a way of working things out... I do hope you are able to see the situation as another road in life and a new journey and it's only the unknown that's scary.

    Chin up hun, it'll be okay, you'll see xxx

  7. thanks 4 sharing this post with us

  8. That was a riveting post. I had to re-read it. When you come back, all those 'what ifs' will fall into place. Promise.

  9. I love that everyone knows the Easter Bunny doesn't leave the mall - too funny. I have to say that I feel A LOT safer living in the UK than the US. I'm not as panicked that someone will nab my kids at an English park.

    I didn't realize you are moving back - moving countries is always a bit unsettling. I'm sure it will all work out just fine in the end :) Deep breaths :) XOL

  10. You have such a catchy blog! wanna follow each other darling? XoXo

  11. Words sharing Motivation
    If we are locked in the room is airtight, aka our first death from poisoning of carbon dioxide in oxygen deficiency.
    may be useful and can thank ya :)

  12. gan to share words of motivation
    Smile, leave sedihmu. Bahagialah, forget takutmu. Who you feel sick, no equivalent would you be happy.
    Tears do not always show sadness, sometimes because we laughed happily with our best friend.
    may be useful and thank ya: D


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